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	David	HYPNOTHERAPY	19/12/2005 20:00:17
Im married but have developed strong homosexual desires, which I have acted on. This is now causing me problems sexually with my wife, who I love but now find it difficult to find her sexually desirable.I wouldnt expect hypnotherapy to make the homosexual feelings go away, but could it make my wife more sexually desirable to me ? She is a lovely woman who doesnt deserve this. I would appreciate your comments.

	Bill Frost	HYPNOTHERAPY	19/12/2005 23:32:57
As you correctly state sexual preference ambiguities should be discussed with a therapist that specialises in that area. Hypnotherapy may be able to help you to focus your desire in such a way that all parties are satisfied. A key component of that process would be to enable you to access and control mental imagery that does stimulate you.

Anon

HYPNOTHERAPY

29/11/2006 13:20:00

I am a gay man, aged 40. I came out aged 22 and since then have largely been in relationships.

Prior to my present relationship, I was with a partner for 5 years. I came home to find the house emptied and my partner gone, with no subsequent contact - he had met someone else and I had absolutely no idea. A few months later I met someone else, who slept around on me. I then made a genuine attempt at suicide.

These relationships have always been monogamous on my part - until my present relationship. I now cannot stop myself cruising on the net for sex and going to cruising areas.

I've got other personal problems, which I have been unable to deal with using hypnotherapy or counselling. Is it possible to be hypnotised to stop this cruising?

	Bill Frost	HYPNOTHERAPY	09/12/2006 16:02:25
OK - you previously valued monogamy, in your last relationship your partner was not monogamous. You found a new relationship but have become promiscuous, yet at the same time you still value monogamy. This conflict between what you value and what you do is causing conflict within you. Therapy has not worked for in the past. I have to wonder what purpose the promiscuity is serving in your life and whether in order to satisfy the needs of your belief in monogamy you are willing to let past patterns go and adopt a new, more congruent pattern?

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